I’ve been truly blessed with the most incredible wife, who has brought so much joy and growth into my life—and she continues to do so, especially with our little boy on the way in July! 💙👶
One of the best decisions we made was eloping instead of having a big wedding. It wasn’t just about keeping things simple—it was a financial decision that set the stage for the life we wanted to build together. 💍💡
By choosing a more intimate wedding, we saved money that would’ve been spent on a large event and put it towards things that have mattered most—like building an emergency fund, paying off debt, and investing in our future. We still had a fantastic honeymoon, and more importantly, we started our journey together with a solid financial foundation. It’s helped us stay strong through tough moments and gave us the peace of mind we needed. 💪
It’s also worth noting that finances are a major factor in relationship stress. According to a survey of Certified Divorce Financial Analyst®️ professionals, 22% of divorces are due to money problems.
Additionally, nearly two-thirds of marriages start off in debt, with 86% of couples married five years or less beginning their journey in the red.
That said, there’s no right or wrong way to get married. If a traditional wedding feels like the right choice for you, go for it! With thoughtful planning and budgeting, it can be an amazing experience without the financial burden. 📊💰
The biggest takeaway? No matter how you celebrate your union, aligning your financial goals and having open communication about money can set you up for long-term success. I’m so grateful to have a partner who shares that vision with me. 🗣️💑
If you and your spouse want to have a chat about your financial goals with me and my team, schedule a FREE call with the link in my bio.
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